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Simon Cowell’s greatest contribution to the world…

So, the story goes that during one season of European Idol (from which American Idol was copied), four singers tried out and were not deemed good enough as solo acts. Simon Cowell contacted them individually and formed the group Il Divo. I have one of their albums and they are a very interesting group. They are from 4 different countries, speak 4 different primary languages and all sing beautifully. Watch the following video and tell me if you don’t agree…

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Every school day, I spend a little time in our Adoration Chapel and I write a prayer that I read at the end of the school day to a group of parents who meet in the parking lot. If I have mentioned that before I’m sorry but yesterday as I walked out and began talking to them, I told them that my original prayer began “Dear Mary, I am so angry with your Son right now…” At that point, I put my pen down and tried to reason out why I was mad; just what it was that caused me to be not disappointed, but angry.

It dawned on me that I was really just counting on taking the easy way out. I’ve always been pro-life but I have never been as outspoken as I have been this year. There are many reasons for it and the dichotomy of the two candidates certainly helped. But the real reason is that I was kind of hoping that we could elect someone who would fight the fight for me and I could go back to my blissfully ignorant little life. Now I understand that I truly need to fight for pro-life issues because they are worth fighting for, not because they’re a good reason to vote for my candidate. I need to educate myself (and my friends) on how to fight within the political process and I don’t mean just marching down Pennsylvania Avenue once a year.

They have rights too.

We have much to be encouraged about but there is still much to do. FOCA must be stopped and we need to make sure that no ‘consented euthanasia’ laws get placed on the books (yes, it is coming). Finally, I realize that there is another Presidential election in 4 years and everyone is searching for the next Republican to get behind but don’t forget that in 2 years, we’ll have another round of Senate elections and that will be the next chance to impact people who will confirm our Supreme Court Justices.

One last opportunity…

So I began thinking about the ‘Undecided Voter Quiz’ that I gave a few days ago and it dawned on me (since I work in an educational environment) that many people learn in many different ways. Also, some people are so engrossed in their jobs that you can only discuss things with them in the terminology they use day in and day out. So I would like to offer some helpful terminology that will make things easier for you if you happen to run across one or more of these people before the election tomorrow…

As a foundational principal I submit that the Right-To-Life issue is the single most important and divisive one facing our voters. I base this conclusion on the simple premise that ALL of the other issues are theoretical in nature. Experts can be found everywhere to conclude that:

  • Both candidates have offered economic packages that may or may not eliminate the current economic crisis.
  • Both candidates have offered medical care changes that may or may not improve health care in this country (a country by the way, with the best health care system in the world).
  • Both candidates have offered military strategies that may or may not bring the war in Iraq and Afghanistan to a peaceful conclusion.
  • Both candidates have offered plans regarding illegal immigrants that may or may not bring this issue to an acceptable conclusion.
  • And finally, both candidates have shown character (and character flaws) that may or may not make them the right leader for this country at this time.

But the one issue upon which everyone has to agree is that the opinion of the two candidates about right-to-life and ‘when life begins’ is so fundamentally different that it can easily be used to separate the two candidates. So without further ado, I would like to present my ways of helping people from different walks of life determine which Presidential candidate to vote for.

If you have someone who is a technology savant; a programmer, project manager, web designer OR someone who is just highly organized and needs things laid out in an orderly fashion, I give you the decision flowchart:


If you are speaking with someone who would like to take a reasoned approach and to deduce who they should vote for using Deductive Logic, try this:

All humans, once conceived have a right to life.
–You must vote for John McCain.

Embryos do not become a human (and thus do not have rights) until they are fully delivered from the mothers’ womb and the umbilical cord is cut.
–You should vote for Barack Obama.

If you are speaking with a farmer, you might try this approach:
You have planted enough seed to harvest about 16,000 [insert item here] each day but someone comes along each day and cuts down about 4,000 of them.
John McCain wants to stop them from being able to cut any down but Barack Obama wants to make it easier for them to cut down even more.

If you are speaking with a business person, an economist or a banker, this might work:
You were given a loan to open a store and begin selling widgets.
Your business model showed that you have the ability to make and sell about 16,000 widgets each day. At this level, you are able to meet all of your manufacturing costs and still make a modest profit for yourself.
Recently, you have begun losing about 4,000 widgets per day to theft and can no longer meet your bills or pay back your loan.
John McCain wants to stop the thieves from getting any of your widgets.
Barack Obama wants to relax the restrictions on the thieves and allow them to take as many from you as they would like.

If you are speaking with a lawyer or someone in the law enforcement arena, they might respond to:
The laws of the United States of America state that the murder of an innocent human is illegal in all instances.
Today, we have documented scientific proof that a human becomes an autonomous organism immediately following conception.
John McCain would ask the Supreme Court Justices to review this countries abortion laws in light of scientific advances made since its inception.
Barack Obama would immediately sign into law a bill that relaxes virtually all restrictions upon abortion.

And Finally, what about the person who just wants to know the truth about this situation:
There are just under 12,000 children born in the United States of America each day.
There are between 3,000 and 5,000 children aborted in the United States of America each day (because of the laws in place, an accurate count is impossible).
If the Freedom of Choice Act is signed into law, the conservative estimate is that about 7,000 children will be aborted each day; some will only be a day or two away from a normal, natural full-term birth!
John McCain will veto the Freedom of Choice Act if he is presented with it and will ask the Supreme Court to review Roe v. Wade and other Pro-Choice laws that appear to be in opposition to the foundational principles set forth in the Declaration of Independence.
Barack Obama will sign the Freedom of Choice Act if he is presented with it and would legitimize as many abortions as possible.

Prayer and Fasting against FOCA…

I’ve not discussed this with you guys before but I am a moderator for an afternoon prayer group that we call the “Parking Lot Prayer Group” at our school. Every school day, I spend a little time in the adoration chapel writing a prayer and then, about 15 minutes before school ends, I invite the parents in the parking lot to stand and pray together. We have jar that we put prayer intentions into and about 25-45 people on average who attend. Anyway, last week one of the parents in the group suggested that we have a day of fasting and prayer in opposition to the Freedom of Choice Act and for the Pro-Life movement. I was able to receive approval for this and we will be holding this special day tomorrow, Wednesday October 29, 2008. We have several events planned including two complete Pro-Life rosaries that will be prayed at 10 AM and 2 PM.

I’m sure that most of you are not in the Woodbridge, VA area but I would invite any of you to participate by offering up a day of fasting and prayer on your own. If you have never fasted in prayer before, let me just say it is one of the most inspiring forms of prayer that I have ever found. The mortification of the body is a special form of prayer that most of the Old Testament prophets, and Jesus Himself used to gain control over evil spirits and show a special form of love to God the Father.

WOW…

All I can say is WOW! Our priest spoke this weekend about right to life issues and how Catholics are mandated by their claim to be a Catholic to vote for life. He spoke of several things, not just Roe v. Wade and the Freedom of Choice Act but he talked about how we need to stop crisis pregnancy at the source and how we have to do everything in our power to help those in crisis pregnancy situations.

His arguments were very compelling. He spoke about how some laws were inherently bad and we recognized them as such. So, slavery was bad and no reasonably intelligent person would agree today that ‘a person should be allowed to choose whether or not they should own slaves’. He spoke that way in regards to spousal abuse also, so that no reasonably intelligent person would agree that ‘a person should be allowed to choose whether or not they can beat their spouse’. Yet we are willing to engage this same type of conversation about the murder of unborn babies. Like me, he followed the abortion argument to it’s logical conclusion (and then some) which is to say “Where do we stop?” There are some countries that are already arguing for and promoting euthanasia as a means of allowing people to die with ‘dignity’. He asked, “why stop there?”; what about the infirmed?, those born with debilitating diseases?, teenagers that we just can’t control? (he got a chuckle for saying this but I’m not sure that was his intention). One more statement that he made was important I think. He said (to the effect of) that the country is responsible for making laws but it is up to the Church to be a moral compass for the country. People didn’t just start believing slavery was bad, the moral climate of the country got to the point where everyone, not just those deeply involved with their church, began to realize that slavery was bad because all men are created equal. Many people died bringing this to fruition and there are still people out there who believe they are better than others strictly because of their race but that is certainly not the pervasive feeling throughout the country.

I believe that abortion is the same way; most people understand that murder is bad but they allow themselves to be bullied into believing that the unborn are somehow not human. Because they do not fall into the ‘viable’ category they are somehow not human yet if you wait a little while, would they somehow be something else? If you apply the scientific process what would you conclude? Every single time in human history when a human egg and a human sperm have united, they have produced a human child. Not 10%, not 50%, not 99.99999%, but 100% of the time. So the argument moves to ‘when does the sperm and the egg become a child?’ This is the argument I like the most because not too long ago, we did not have any real evidence. Today however we know that immediately after the sperm and the egg unite, the new life begins; the cells start splitting and (though it may not yet look like it) little Tommy or little Janey is on the way.

So what exactly are we left with in this whole Pro-Life argument? I’ll tell you. We are left with those who have the courage to stand up for what is right and have an open, honest debate with the pro-choice people. It’s not our job to try and understand what the other side is saying. It is not our job to agree that sometimes, just maybe sometimes, there is a valid reason for aborting a baby. It is our job to present a reasoned, well thought out argument for the sanctity of all life not matter what state it is in.

What about the safety of the mother? Come on Hobbit, you have to agree that if the doctor says the mother will die delivering this baby, we should be able to abort the baby. NO I DON’T! I cannot give life to anything therefore I should not be willing to take life from anything either. One of the arguments in this case is that “we cannot be sure that the sperm and egg are a life”. If we cannot be sure it is a life, it stands to reason that we cannot be sure it is NOT a life. Which side makes more sense, allowing it to grow and see if it becomes a life or killing it, ensuring that we will never know?

So what can you do? First and foremost, you need to educate yourself on the issue so that you can make an informed case for life. Secondly, you need to vote pro-life. This is not me speaking to you, this is Pope John Paul II speaking in Evangelium Vitae that the single most fundamental right of the human being is the right to life and that no government or power be allowed to create any law which would subvert that right. All Catholics must and all Christians should be compelled to vote for the candidate who will uphold the right to life. This has nothing to do with what you think is correct or, more importantly, what your conscience is telling you; this has to do with fundamental truths and, perhaps, the reason why we are Catholics in the first place. Sometimes, it is important for us to rely on those whose job it is to educate us in our morality. In this case, it is Pope John Paul II; a man who almost all religious leaders considered to be fundamentally grounded in the gospel of Jesus Christ! He is telling us that this one subject is more important than anything else to mankind. It is THE foundational principal upon which all other moral decisions depend! Vote pro-life and then follow up to ensure that your candidates are keeping their word.

Whose choice is it anyway…

Well I was all set to go back to writing funny, pithy little snide comments and remarks when I got an e-mail from a very good friend of mine. It seems that this abortion issue is just getting worse and worse. I really wasn’t planning on spending another post on the subject since MOST of you agreed with the position and the few dissenters did not seem to be so much pro-abortion as ‘seeking the right time that abortion could be abolished’. But that all changed with my quick edumacation today. It seems that my buddy Barack Obama is very excited about becoming President so that he can sign into law the bill (S. 1173, H.R. 1964) called “The Freedom of Choice Act” (FOCA) and as originally written was designed to codify** the 1973 Roe v. Wade decision. For me, that would be enough to say “No”; however as the bill has gone through the lawmaking process, it has picked up and (more importantly) dropped some very interesting (read alarming) verbiage.

**Codification is when existing laws and their amendments are rewritten so that they are no longer chronological but placed within their branch of law and the meanings of the decisions and amendments are ‘interpreted’ by those who write the bill. In this case, several pro-abortion Senators’ have taken the liberty of interpreting the decisions for us.

So, without sugar-coating anything, here are the ‘rights’ that Barack Obama wants to give to pregnant women and take away from unborn babies.

  1. Federally mandate the removal of laws in place to ensure abortion facilities meet health and safety regulations.
  2. Federally mandate the removal of ‘informed consent’ to abortion since these laws can lead to delay in abortion and are seen as interfering with the abortion process.
  3. Federally mandate that the government may not discriminate against the funding of abortion in publicly funded programs. Our tax dollars will now be required, from the Federal level, to be available to pay for abortions!
  4. Federally mandate the allowance of abortions after viability (partial-birth and late term abortions) with no stipulation for the health of the mother.
  5. Allow for the removal of the requirement that abortions be performed by a medically qualified physician.
  6. Removes the right of Conscientious Objection. In other words, physicians, hospitals and other medical personnel can be forced to perform or support abortions even if their moral principals are being violated.
  7. Removes the rights for parents to be involved/notified of their minor daughter’s decision to have an abortion.

So what does this all mean? Well, this is the most aggressive pro-abortion/anti-life piece of legislation ever drafted. In my opinion, Articles of War have been drafted with less certainty of holocaust. This bill literally rolls back every major advance that the pro-life movement has made since the 1973 decision of Roe v. Wade including those that were put in place to protect the health of the mother who decides to have an abortion. According to the NOW website: [The Freedom of Choice Act (FOCA)] would sweep away hundreds of anti-abortion laws, policies.”

As of today October 20, 2008, 4,797 Americans have died in the war in Iraq and Afghanistan; that’s just about 7 years worth of fighting. Senator Obama says this is too costly in lives and money. Today (and today alone) 3000 unborn children will die at the hands of abortionists; tomorrow 3000 more will die, the next day another 3000, and so on…These are not just numbers, these are lives and Barack Obama is chomping at the bit to sign this bill into law! If I knew nothing else about this man, I would tell you that you are either an idiot or you are evil if you vote for him to become President of the United States!

Perhaps you’ve heard that Nancy Pelosi is already making plans for a Lame Duck session of Congress the week following the election. If Barack Obama wins and the Liberals pick up a few more seats, they will force a lame duck session NOT to work on the economy, NOT to create an energy plan, they will meet to draft and bring forward massive amounts of medical, tax, and invasive legislation that will be ready for their new President to sign the moment he takes office. This bill is an example of their best work; they want to make it unsafe, easy and free for any girl or woman in the US to have an abortion.

If you haven’t seen this video yet (http://www.durarealidad.com/), please watch it. It was created by the man who is responsible for the movie Bella (thanks, Nicole). It is horrible and graphic and will hopefully make you sick to your stomach. If it doesn’t then you deserve the government that you will unleash upon the rest of us. One thing I do know is that John McCain and Sarah Palin WILL NOT SUPPORT this bill and they will do everything in their power to have it removed from the lawmaking process.

Pray, pray like you’ve never prayed before. Pray for John and Sarah but pray for Barack and Joe as well because if they do get elected, they WILL SEE this bill and the only thing that could stop someone from signing it into law is a conscience. Barack has not shown me one yet and if Joe has one, it is not strong enough to overcome his boss (not yet anyway).

Let me get this straight…

Obama, change

Obama, change


This is really one of my favorite campaign ads for this political season. Let’s see, so his economic recovery plan has to do with taxing the people and companies that hire 95% of the private sector employees. Then he’s going to cut government spending while increasing government intervention in our lives. He’s going to force the medical industry to cut costs so that the government can afford to pay our medical costs because he’s going to nationalize medical coverage but he’s going to do this without stopping the litigation that is causing medical costs to skyrocket. Plus, the attorneys who are currently having to sue medical practices and/or insurance companies are now going to be able to sue the federal government. Yep, I’m loving the prospect of an Obama led nation…Obama-Nation…Obamination…

My favorite has to be his stance on life. When George Herbert Walker Bush ran for President, Dennis Miller who then hosted Saturday Night Live’s News segment made the statement that Bush was Anti-Abortion but Pro-Death Penalty; the punch-line was “I guess it’s all in the timing, huh George?” Now, we have a candidate who is Pro-Abortion and Anti-Death Penalty. So let me get this straight, an unborn infant who has done absolutely nothing wrong can be terminated at the convenience of the one who conceived it but a person who willingly and knowingly committed a crime so heinous that our laws would allow them to be put to death should not. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think we have the right to take anyone’s life and believe that no one, no matter what the cause of their conception, crime they’ve committed, or age (euthanasia) should be put to death in any unnatural way. But hey, if I had to defend one position or the other, I certainly could find it easier to defend Capital Punishment than I could Abortion. Did you hear Katie Couric trying to rope in Sarah Palin with that lame question? “So, you believe that a woman who becomes pregnant because of rape or incest should be forced to carry the baby to term?” Hell yes; or do two wrongs now make a right in Katie’s precious little book? Let’s see, kill the unborn child and then the mother can just go on with her life and the trauma of the rape or incest will just go away like it never happened??? Please! Oh, and the abortion is not going to add any trauma to the poor victim’s life. I wish Sarah’s answer to Katie would have gone something like “Yes, and I believe that it shouldn’t be the law that the elementary school nurse has to call me to give my child an aspirin and yet is legally restricted from calling me before referring her to the abortion clinic.”

Unashamed Pro-Lifer

Unashamed Pro-Lifer


One more thing before I step off this soapbox, Whoopee Goldberg used to make millions of dollars selling videos in which she ridiculed men who had a pro-life view. She would walk up to the men and ask them “When was the last time you were pregnant?” Now on “The View”, she asks John McCain if she has to be worried about going back to slavery because of his view on strict interpretation of Constitutional Law. When was Whoopee ever a slave? About the only thing she is a slave to is that tired excuse for a hairstyle she’s been sporting for the last 35 years! Hypocrite! How do you get these jobs? Man I wish more people read my blog; I’m out of here…

Palin rocks; and plays hard ball…

Palin-Biden VP Debate
Wow, say what you want; spin it if you like to but there is no way to say that Governor Palin didn’t hold her own against Senator Joe Biden. Even the Washington Post found it hard to criticize her performance in the debate; though they did manage to have the style department make derogatory comments about her clothing. I don’t think that Senator Biden did poorly, in fact he did quite well but he was supposed to do quite well, he’s been making political speeches and performing public debates for 35 years! Even a stupid fat hobbit could become proficient at something if he did it for 35 years.

I did love the way that Governor Palin would not allow Senator Biden to dictate what she was going to speak about in her rebuttals. If he even suggested that she hadn’t answered a question, she would purposely change the subject so that he knew he was not going to yank her chain. In fact the only time I think she slipped up was when Senator Biden stated that John McCain had voted against the same military funding bill that Senator Osama oops, Obama did. Her point, as I understood it, was that Senator Obama promised to support the bill and then changed his mind and did not. The question was not who voted for the bill, it was who flip-flopped on voting for the bill and that was Barack Obama.

I will say that some of the “Joe America” stuff (from both candidates) started getting to me after a while. I really don’t care if you identify with me or not, I’m good just knowing that you understand the current plight of working-class America and that you plan to do something about it.

I thought the most interesting comment of the night was when Senator Biden told Governor Palin that Osama bin Laden is hiding in the mountains of Afghanistan. This is the second or third time he’s mentioned this lately and he certainly made it sound like he’d just gotten back from a two week vacation at Osama’s secret retreat. Those are the kinds of statements that really irk me; a Senator from Delaware knows exactly where bin Laden is but nobody in the US Military does (or are they choosing not to kill him)? Last I heard, he was still ‘Undesirable #1′ and President Bush would love to mount his ghutrah on his wall in Crawford, TX. Maybe Senator Biden could march on in to Afghanistan and take care of business for us seeing as how he’s so knowledgeable about his whereabouts.

Oh well, I guess I better stop before I give away any hints as to who I’m voting for this year. I hope you all have a blessed day.

Happy Birthday Buddy…

Today is your 15th birthday and I cannot tell you how proud I am of you. Yes, there are things that we could work on together but today is not the day to discuss that. Today is your day. Before long you will be able to get your permit to drive and then the worrying will really begin for me but today is for joy and celebration. Today is for happiness and life.

15 years ago today, God created a spirit, knitted it to a physical body and released you to the care of others (us). There were many times when I was scared that I would fail in God’s trust in me but I’ve persevered because I know that there is no more important job that God has given me than to protect your soul until you are completely responsible for it yourself. I don’t know that I’ve ever said this before but the first time I ever remember your mom and I praying together for something that we both agreed on 100% was when we prayed that God would deliver a healthy, happy baby boy to us. And he did not fail in fulfilling that request.

Your spirit is so strong and burns so hot I sometimes wonder how your body keeps it in without igniting itself. You mom noticed this long before I did of course. She thought it meant that you should be a Priest and she has prayed for that many times. Being a man, and less of a godly man than I should have been, I did not pray for this though many, many nights I have knelt or stood beside your bed and asked God to raise up a fine Catholic woman to be your wife. I now admit though that I believe your mom is right and one day you may find that God calls you to shepherd a part of His flock. If He does, I pray you will have the courage to say yes to Him.

Today, though, you are not a Priest. You are a strapping young lad who is now the tallest one in the household but have a long way to go before the household belongs to you. You are a friend, and a boyfriend, and a soccer player, and an excellent student to boot. When you laugh, it is loud and obnoxious like your father; when you think, it is deep and provoking like your mom. You are truly our son and we love you more than anything save God Himself.

I hope and pray that this day will be special for you and that after you’ve opened your presents and had your party, you remember that God has given you life and that you thank Him for that very special gift.

We love you very much. God Bless You.

Even if you polish a turd…

It’s still a turd!

My wife’s husband is a turd. I kind of like the guy but really he is. Imagine if you will that you are a woman (for some of you this will not require imagination); you are stationed in a foreign country where women are considered to be one step below dogs on the ladder of life. You are required to drive 20 minutes back and forth to work each day, by yourself, knowing that if you break down or get a flat you will most likely be harassed (if you’re lucky) or harmed (if you’re not). Imagine that a huge terrorist bomb goes off less than a mile from where you are working. A bomb so devastating that you FEEL it in your chair! You pick up the phone and call your husband to let him know you’re okay even before he knows there is a problem and what does he do? He blogs about HIS feelings! What a jerk!

Debbie and her turd...

Debbie and her turd...


So today, I owe you all an apology but especially my wife. The one whom I love and would give the world for. I’m so sorry that you are having to experience this. People whom you worked with have died or are severely injured. You are scared and alone and I cannot be there to listen or hold you or let you cry on my shoulder. I promised to always be there for you and I cannot. You should probably hate me but you don’t. I should have stopped to ask how you were feeling and if there was anything, anything at all that I could do for you but I didn’t. I’d like to use the excuse that you had to hangup quickly or perhaps that I was so shocked by what I was hearing that I couldn’t think straight but the fact of the matter is that I’m selfish. I was scared of what would happen to me and the kids if you were gone and I thanked God that you were safe but not so much because of your safety but because we would not have to go on without you. What a selfish turd you’ve married. At this very moment I am so glad you are a strong Catholic woman who would never divorce her husband, I’d deserve it.

As you can see, I have had time now to think about what I said and did not say to you when you called. I have had time to rethink my position. I still am scared of losing you but I no longer pray for your safety out of fear of losing you or because I cannot stand the thought of the world without you but because you have placed your life on the line so that others, those back home, can sleep in peace. Maybe not all of us back home are sleeping that way but there are many more that are than aren’t. Please, please, please stay safe. Pray the Canopy Prayer every day, it really works. Know that I am praying for you every hour of the day to come back to us safe and sound. I am constantly asking God to remove your fear and allow you to rest so that you can be at your best. For him to wrap you in the wings of your Guardian Angel and block out anything that would harm you. I know that we are meant to be together and that our love will be enough to get you through this time. I am so thankful for your strengths and your weaknesses. I love you.

Me <3