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Happy Mother’s Day, my love…

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Happy Mother’s Day! I wish more than anything that I could be there to share this day with you. In the picture above, you can see the things that bring me more joy than I know I’ve ever deserved. A beautiful wife and two great kids enjoying themselves out in the sun. You’re the reason that I have that joy. You said yes 18 1/2 years ago and made my life complete and full. If there have been times of trouble, there have been many, many more times of joy. I will never forget the look on your face each time we realized that you had a new life growing inside of you. What a tremendous responsibility and blessing we have been given. And you, to have carried them inside of you for 9 months and go through all of the pain that childbirth brings, only to forget it immediately and marvel at the wonder of that new life. When you said yes to me, you also said yes to God and though maybe it wasn’t so obvious then, you also said yes to them.

Today, as every day, I hope and pray that God wraps you in an envelope of peace and quiet. That the stress of the past few months can be wiped away and that you can be allowed to enjoy your Mother’s Day with your children. I can’t wait till we can be together as a family once again and celebrate these times without the distance between us. I love you more than anything other than God himself and I want the whole world to know that you are my life, you are my reason for carrying on each day, and that your love makes me wish I were a better man so that I could feel like I deserve it. So rest, my love. Be joyful today and celebrate the fact that God has blessed you with two of His children to raise, they are the reason you can call this day your own. Without them, you’d only be the best wife in the world, not the best mother as well. God bless you more today than any other day.

With all my heart and love,
Patrick

Who are you? And where’s my son…

Okay, I totally sat down to write this scathing message about the fight my son and I had this morning and how I was ready to ship him to military school and only see him on holidays. After yesterday’s post you would probably think I’m bi-polar but what you don’t know is that yesterday’s post was written two weeks ago on a night when Jeremy and I were all lovey-dovey and life was good in my house. I purposely waited for a time like that (not too rare but rare enough) because I wanted the birthday message to be free of sarcasm and filled with love; which it was if I do say so myself, which I do.

Anyway, as I sat down the dog decided that I could walk him or I could pick up poop off the floor and being smarter than I am lazy, I walked the dog.

Then I sat down to write the blog and noticed that I had received an e-mail while walking the dog telling me that one of my websites had an issue that needed to be fixed ASAP and since they pay part of my bills, I decided to fix it ASAP.

Then I sat down to write the blog and the front door opened and in walked my son so I braced myself for round two of the argument from this morning; only the argument didn’t come. The little so-and-so walked in and came || that close to apologizing for his behavior this morning and then started talking about his day and soccer practice and then…AND THEN, he started doing his homework without a single comment or snide remark or anything!!!! Ridiculous. How, oh how am I going to remain mad and argue with a kid who behaves that way! I might even wash his soccer uniform for his game tomorrow, that’s how good I’m feeling right now.

Do you think it would be too much to think that this might be the beginning of a new, mature relationship in which the 15 year old child in the house begins to behave like something within the 15 year old neighborhood? Please God! Would that all the prayers and petitions that I have prayed for the past few months for him could come true…I love him, really I do but this morning I was ready to e-mail him to his mom in small, e-mail sized bites.

Now, where’s my daughter?